Showing posts with label rants. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rants. Show all posts

7.17.2014

Writing Prompt: Day 2

2. Talk about something you feel strongly about

There are so many subjects to be written under the heading “Something You Feel Strongly about”, choosing one is proving to be more of a daunting task that I first anticipated…. 

The rant worthy possibilities are endless Gun control, Hobby Lobby and their Healthcare fiasco, religion, government in general, the government's involvement in health care, relationships …. but there are few that will increase my blood pressure more than animals not being treated fairly. 

That last sentence was awkward, and I’m sorry 

As I’ve started writing these blog posts, I find myself very scattered on this subject, since there are so many aspects that create angst in my mind when it comes to training a dog. This includes, but is not limited too: how people treat their dogs, how people think about their dogs, how they train, what they use to trainetc 

Over the last eight years my knowledge about dog training has increased, and I firmly believe there is a right and wrong way to train. Yes, each animal is different, and there shouldn’t be a one size fits all technique, but no technique should ever involve the use of electricity, hitting, pinching, choking, strangling, intimating, spanking or the like. [See also: alpha rolling] 

I can find no place in the realm of TEACHING where that needs to be a necessity. To me training isn’t about having a dog that follows direction, but is a form of communication between a human and a non-verbal being.  We as humans bring these animals into our lives with the expectations that they will provide companionship, protection, in some cases independence, or a sense of identity.

I feel as if 80% of dog owners don’t really think about the fact that they are living with a DOG. 
I know that most owners don’t realize that 90% of “good dog” behavior has to be taught by the humans. (Yes there are exceptions.) 

Did you know? Dogs don’t come from the womb inherently knowing that they will be named and have to respond to it? They don’t know they aren’t supposed use the human as a chew toy. They don’t know that “SIT” means put your butt on the floor and don’t move. They have no idea why in the world you would want them to COME for something hideous like a bath, or a punishment. AND THEY ABSOLUTELY AREN’T POTTY TRAINED. 

You don’t know how many phone calls I’ve fielded with frustrated pet parents (yes, I just used that word)  who can’t figure out why their puppy keeps peeing in the house! 

“Well, here’s the thing, your puppy is… 7 weeks? Yes, their bladders are super tiny and need to be relieved every 15-30 minutes, so what you’ll need to do is create a schedule, I like to start around 7AM (or earlier depending on your schedule .. *cue fading out audio* 

One of the biggest behaviors people don’t realize needs to be TAUGHT is how to walk on a leash. Once again, dogs don’t come out of the womb leashed and wearing a collar! (You learn new things everyday! Right?) So whether its a young pup you just adopted (cough) or an older dog.. if you never put a leash on him/her .. when you finally do, rest assured you are going to create some angst in their doggie mind. 

They don’t know why suddenly their movements are restricted, but they quickly realize they can still pretty much do what they want because they are stronger than the human. 

Thennnn out comes the prongs, and the choke chains, and the e-collars. 

‘We tried EVERYTHING’ and nothing worked except [insert barbaric device here]. 

[insert my skeptical look here] 

“You do realize ma’am that you have to TEACH them how to walk well on leash right?”  

I spent the last year and half working at a vet clinic, and have heard every excuse in the book as to why people rely on these tools for their particular dog… however underneath the mantra I kept hearing was… 

“WE” didn’t want to train, we just wanted the behavior to “go away” 
We wanted a quick fix.
We had to do something NOW or else we’d have to re-home him. 
We were tired of dealing with it. 
“We tried trainers! We went to puppy class and he knew it then, but now he doesn’t!” 

I’m sorry, do you remember everything you learned in elementary school? Oh wait, you don’t? What? But you knew it then! Why don’t you remember it now? so why do expect your dog to retain that knowledge if you don’t work on it, at least on a weekly basis? If you want a good dog, it takes work! 

That’s something that I feel as if most dog owners don’t want to put it. 

Well, people get a cat. 

Hello.

I regularly have requests for dog training after seeing my, very well behaved if I do say so myself, yellow pup. I would laugh and respond: Yes *i* can train them, but you’d still have to train and maintain as well. 

My friend Rebekah is learning this lesson as we speak. ;) 

Let’s not even get into the WAYS people train their animals. 
Or tail docking, ear cropping, declawing ...

In conclusions… are there any other questions about what I feel strongly about? Heh. Nope? 

Welp

Sionara

What? 

Never mind. 

Toodles

8.28.2011

Life as I know it...

Here's the thing, I love my family you know? They're really great peoples once you get to know them. (ducks a shoe comes flying from nowhere) But here's the thing, we're not so great about the whole "communication" thing. 


I don't tell them what I'm doing, they don't tell me what they're doing; and we're ok with that... except when things like this happen. (paraphrased a bit) 


Me: So did you guys get a lot of stuff moved into the new house?
Them (one of them): Yeah all the beds are over there.
Me: Aw so are you guys going to spend the night over there now?
Them: YEAAAh...we kinda of don't have any beds at this house. 
Me: Oh ok.
Them: We're going to have the internet guy come out Monday and hook that up.
Me: Cool. Me: ... Wait so that means you're shutting down the internet here? (which I'm stealing as I can pick it up all the way at my house) TOMORROW!??
Them: Um yess I think so.    
Me: (note not yelling just a wee bit panicky) BUT..BUT..YOU'RE NOT EVEN GOING TO BE HERE FOR THE WEEK!?! (another suprise..they are going leaving town for the week)
Them: Oh! I'm sorry! I don't know what you're going to do. 
Me: <gaping>  What am *I* supposed to do?! 


While I knew this was going to happen at some point, I didn't realize/no one informed me that they were moving for real, for real (they've been working at this for about a month or two now) this weekend or I would have........probably...done nothing since I'm flat broke (hence why the whole stealiage of the parental units internet).


What is the point of this post? 
I know you're wondering, with good reason. 


None really, more of just an this-cant-be-happening-right-before-school-starts-brain-dump. 


If I go to school this semester.


But I'm not stressing about that. No Sirree. 


Not stressed at all. 


*whistles*



Back to the point though: I need my internet!! Honestly what else does one do with nothing else to do? 


Read a book? Cook? Clean my house? Train my dogs? Psht. Parish the thought. 



I'm going to bed. 



6.03.2010

Facebook Rants

Facebook & Relationships
Seriously, who knew that those two words would EVER be put togther!? As someone whose been on Facebook for...well since its started... I never thought it was a place to keep a relationship alive and well!
Over the years I have had several friends date, become in engaged, and get married...and we knew "almost" every detail because of the constant status updates with:

  • "I LoVE {insert name} so much! 
  • Missing {insert name}!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 10 more days till I see {insert name}!!!!!!
  • I"M GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
  • I have the Hubby/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend in the WORLD!!!!!!!!

I mean the first time its cute, third time, you're rolling your eyes, and by the 20th time your starting to hide status updates. You really don't have to convince US that you love him/her!

T.M.I!
I don't know maybe I'm just uber private or something, but  for me Facebook is not the place for all my information. I don't have my last name up there, I don't have my address or phone number, my photos can only be viewed if you are my friend, I don't post my location to my status, I don't really like that my hometown/current town are up there, None of my current job info is on there and I don't post grievances against other people that are on Facebook.

Leaving Facebook
I love it when people get off of Facebook, cause they "don't have time" for it. Time for WHAT!?! Its JUST a website!! There is no rule that says you have to look at every photo, respond to every comment, post regularity, or check it everyday!?


End Rant.
Only cause I got distracted and forgot what else I was going to rant about. Be happy.

3.09.2010

Peer Pressure

>We interrupt our regularly scheduled blog for thoughts from Erin <
Peer Pressure.
Something that’s been on my mind lately.
What do you think of when you see or hear those words?
Does is make you think of something bad?
In Sociology class last week, we talked a lot about peer pressure and “group think” in society as a whole.. Most of my classmates tended to think that Peer Pressure was bad, and for the most part I agreed with them. I was a “victim” of peer pressure from as a child...my loving awesome friends, were pretty bad influences on me, but I really wanted to be accepted. So guess what I did. I went along. As I grew older, the left me behind and I began to get a backbone, and started becoming my own person. Their leaving was a big wake up call for me as I realized my life had been revolved around what other people thought of me. I think once I started raising my first guide dog puppy, that I really started liking who I was as a person. That morphed into me not really caring what other people thought of me..I do care, but at the same time I don’t. I want people to think of me as a trust worthy, respectable, kind, stylish (hee hee) but at the same time, I don’t care if you don’t like how I dress, how I express myself, my political views..etc..etc..

But on the flip side, I don't believe all peer pressure is BAD...in the sense of life destroying....my current friends have placed some good pressures on me, such as teaching me to share, or give of my self more...While other pressures is just more wanting to fit in with your peers....

So why is this on my mind?

Well….because I’m actually suffering from blog peer pressure.
I started this blog, because I didn’t want to keep cluttering up my dogs blogs, with my personal stuff, so I began Erin (-) Guide Dogs which morphed into Life of a College Student …and now is known as I Should Be Studying(I’m getting to a point here. For real.) I didn’t blog overly much, as my life revolves around my dogs…but it was about me, my life what I felt.... Since gaining more blog readers, I feel more and more pressure, to post content for my readers to keep them happy, to give away things, and to not post what I’d really like too for fear of..the unknown..what will people think of me if I write this or say that.
 
I'd love to give stuff away, but am I doing it because everyone else is?

Its killing me to have these thoughts, because this is something I thought as finally under my belt. I don't think I'll ever get past caring what people think of me, but does that mean I can't have my own opinions,thoughts, or ways of doing things??
What happened to the 18yo girl who was blogging for the fun of it??

Maybe I'll never give anything away...
Maybe I'll continue changing my blog layout every other week...
Maybe all my posts will be completely random...
Maybe I'll continue to edit my posts 15 times after I've published them...

But that will be who I am, what makes me unique from everyone else out there.

What am I trying to say here?
I’m going to keep doing what I’m doing and lovin it.

Hopefully I haven't scared everyone off...